Self Expression Using Mens Formal Wear Accessories

By: Hendrik Pohl

Over the years mens formal wear has continually evolved. However, one constant has remained unchanged. Accessories are the outlet for men to express their individualism and personality when wearing formal wear. Keep in mind that the purpose of accessories is to complement your formal wear, not to overwhelm it. Use restraint and resist over accessorizing in order to maintain the formal aura.

Dress Set
It is advisable to purchase a complete, matching dress set for your tuxedo. In a dress set you would expect to find all the essentials such as two cuff links, shirt studs and vest buttons.

Tie
The bowtie choice should match with the trim of the dinner jacket or tux jacket. If the jacket is trimmed in satin, the choice for the bowtie would be a satin tie. For grosgrain trim choose a tie made of woven or ribbed fabric. The important point is to choose a tie that matches the trim and does not detract from the jacket. Should you choose to wear a tie that is not black, coordinate the color of the tie to the color of the cummerbund.

Handkerchief
Handkerchief ideally will match the color of the cummerbund. It will be neatly folded and placed in the breast pocket of the suit jacket. Pocket squares made specifically for formal use can be purchased in satin and other fabrics.

Suspenders
When wearing braces or suspenders with formal wear, the suspender tabs should be attached directly in line with the first pleat of the trousers.

Shoes
Wear shoes that complement the ensemble. You need not be uncomfortable in formal dress shoes. Look for shoes that are comfortable to wear and that complete the look you desire. Tuxedo slippers provide the ultimate in comfort as well as the ultimate in footwear style.

Socks
Socks are a great way to show your individuality by selecting patterns and colors without compromising the overall appearance of your formal wear. If you opt for the more traditional stockings they should match the color of the trousers so as to blend in and not draw attention to the feet.

Gloves and Scarves
When the weather is inclement gloves and scarves matching your formal attire are a must. These should match the color of the tuxedo or dinner jacket.

Hats
Hats are the crowning glory of formal attire. Top hats are the finishing touch to any formal ensemble. When choosing the hat, match the color of the tuxedo. Choose the style hat you feel good wearing and that is appropriate for the occasion.

Accessories make the man. That adage is never more true that when accessorizing ones formal wear. Choose accessories that blend the attire and reflects your personality.

Overall, though, make sure you keep your entire look quite tame. Showing off a dash of boldness or unexpected uniqueness to your ensemble might not be the smartest idea and should be kept to a minimum, if ever. If you really must, opt to show this individuality in only one item of clothing. If you end up choosing to do so with several items, it will be seen as too flashy and you will definitely go overboard. Remember that this is still a formal function, not a unique costume ball.